Pastor, What’s Wrong With The Lottery?

Dr. Dan Reed was born in Birmingham, Alabama in 1951. He was saved at the Woodland Avenue Baptist Church in 1973 while studying engineering at Auburn University. Sensing the call to preach in 1973 he enrolled at Tennessee Temple College under the ministry of Dr. Lee Roberson. Finishing his B.A. in December of 1975 he was called to Emden, Missouri , a town of 61, to pastor the Community Baptist Church. Pastor Reed has started two churches and two Christian schools during his 33-year ministry. He is currently the pastor of Harvest Baptist Church of Acworth, Georgia. (Learn more about Dr. Reed HERE)

WHAT’S WRONG WITH THE LOTTERY?
(Proverbs 28:8) “He that by usury and unjust gain increaseth his substance, he shall gather it for him that will pity the poor.”  (KJV)

Is there anything wrong with the lottery? Yes, and Christians should not be a part of it nor a part of any other sort of gambling.

The lottery is spreading gambling fever across the world. Only a few years ago there were no state sponsored lotteries in AMERICA. The first was formed in 1963. America’s first lottery dates back to 1612 and Jamestown, Virginia. The Virginia Company was having trouble staying in business and it was granted permission from the King of England to hold a lottery to raise money. By the 1770’s most of the American colonial governments had begun to hold lotteries. They were used to raise money for churches, schools, public buildings, roads and bridges. The Continental Congress turned to the lottery to help raise money for the War for Independence. In 1798 Alexandria, Virginia held a lottery to help pay for the paving of the streets of the city. But as the number and size of the lotteries increased, so did the fraud. In 1830 a lottery reform movement took place and by 1840 twelve states, mostly in New England, had outlawed lotteries. By 1878 only one state lottery remained and that was in Louisiana. Finally, however, in 1895 the U.S. Congress prohibited interstate commerce in lottery tickets and outlawed the import of lottery material. That was the end until 1963. New Hampshire, suffering from a lack of funds and refusing to enact a state income tax or sales tax, approved a New Hampshire Sweepstakes in 1964. It brought in almost 3 million in the first year. New York was the second state to join ranks. The South (the Bible belt) held out until last but today 37 states and the District of Columbia have legalized the state lottery system.

The money expended on lotteries has exploded! In 1994 $482 BILLION was spent on lottery tickets nationwide (Newsday, “Gambling the New National Pastime,” Dec. 3, 1995). In 1974 it was only $17 billion a year. An estimated one third of all American adults buy lottery tickets. In New York State that figure is two thirds. Americans spend more on lottery games than on movie tickets, plays, and all forms of recorded music combined; and they wager more each year than they spend on national defense.

THE GOVERNMENT ITSELF PAYS FOR ADS WHICH MAKE QUICK RICHES APPEAR TO BE THE SOLUTION TO LIFE’S PROBLEMS. Each year U.S. state governments spend more than $300 million in lottery advertisements. An ad in New York, where the odds of winning the top prize are about one in 12.9 million, depicts “Happy Gary,” a car salesman who wins the lottery, gives away his cars and heads for the Bahamas. Another ad shows a winner floating in a pool outside his new mansion. The New York lottery slogan since 1967 has been “All you need is a dollar and a dream,” and ads depict people daydreaming about being rich. A Washington State ad shows a line of workers punching a time clock. An announcer says, “Nothing satisfies the soul so much as honest toil and seeing through a job well done.” As if to mock this philosophy of life, the man at the end of the line, a lottery winner, takes his time sheet and throws it out the window, and the announcer adds, “Of course, having a whole bunch of money’s not bad either.”

Some researchers believe gambling is the fastest growing addiction among teenagers. The director of the Maryland Council on Compulsive Gambling blamed the lottery for the steep rise in two new classes of compulsive gamblers, women and teenagers (Sword of the Lord, Nov. 20, 1992). A survey among college students revealed that roughly one fourth gamble at least once a week. As noted earlier, an extensive survey completed this year in Canada found that two thirds of young people aged 12‑17 in Alberta are gamblers, and large numbers are in danger of becoming addicted. Jeffrey Devevensky, director of McGill University’s school of applied and child psychology, observed that “this is the first generation of kids who have grown up in a society where gambling has been totally legalized.” What will be the frightful result of this unbridled lust for easy riches?

State sponsored lotteries have unleashed a gambling fever which is expanding in other directions. There are more than 500 CASINOS in America today, and casino gambling is allowed in 23 states. Minnesota has more casinos than Atlantic City. “In Mississippi, more money was gambled in casinos in 1994 than was spent on all taxable retail goods” (Newsday, Dec. 3, 1995).

One of the newest gambling rages is VIDEO LOTTERY TERMINALS (VLT), which, because of their extremely addictive character, have been called the “crack cocaine of gambling.” Robert Goodman calls VLT “McGambling ‑‑ gambling’s fast food equivalent.” These are extremely popular among young people who have grown up with video games. The VLTs are similar to slot machines, in that the customer feeds coins into the terminal and looks for matches on the numbers or cards or cherries which spin at the drop of the coin. In St. John’s, Newfoundland, a province with 20% unemployment, many of the bars are filled with patrons seven days a week, and one of the big draws are the VLTs. There “is hope that a loonie or two plugged into one of the ubiquitous video lottery terminals will return a jackpot. It is that hope that keeps machines everywhere blinking in four‑color neon and eating coin after coin, quietly humming a siren song that draws the poor to their promise everywhere in Canada” (Calgary Herald, “VLT Gambling Terminal Disease for Canada’s Unemployed,” June 3, 1996). (The above info is taken from David O. Cloud & Rus Walton’s material on gambling)

New York spent $41 million on such ads in 1995. The lottery commission purchased more than 16,000 radio spots in New York City alone. A billboard, erected in an impoverished section of Chicago’s West Side, advertised the Illinois lottery with these words: “How to get from Washington Boulevard to Easy Street ‑‑ Play the Illinois lottery.”

The ads work. Describing the gambling frenzy in Arizona when the lotto jackpot reached $23 million, a newspaper said, “People are buying (tickets) all over the state. It’s crazy everywhere.” The frenzy is even higher at times in England, where 90% of adults purchased a lottery ticket in the first week of January (Ian Cotton, Unreality Bites, p. 33).

Not only are the state governments addicting their citizens to gambling, THE GOVERNMENTS THEMSELVES HAVE BECOME ADDICTED TO GAMBLING INCOME. New York raked in more than $3 billion in 1994. It is usually claimed that the revenue goes to fund education and other endeavors, but many states put the income into the general budget. In some states, taxes have been raised for education in spite of the promise that lottery revenue would meet the need. New York raised $1.24 billion in 1994, but this did nothing to increase the amount spent on education. “The State Legislature simply puts that much less from the general fund into the education budget.” A national study shows that states that earmark some or all of their gambling revenues for education, less than 4 percent of the education budget goes towards schools (Paul Scianna, Missouri Family Policy Center, Straight Talk, Family Research Council, Jan. 17, 1996).

THE RESULT OF THE GAMBLING EXPLOSION HAS BEEN PREDICTABLE. The number of Gamblers Anonymous groups in the U.S. has doubled since 1980, to 1,200. There were 40,000 calls to the Council on Compulsive Gambling’s national hotline in 1994. Gambling researcher Rachel Volberg, in a 1991 study in Connecticut, found that pathological gamblers were costing the state nearly $200 million more than it received from legal gambling. Gambling is resulting in increased family breakup, suicide, crime, and overwhelming personal debt. In a warning to government leaders in Ontario, which is phasing in video lottery terminals this year, Robert Goodman predicted that the province must “expect an increase in embezzlement, insurance and credit card fraud, theft, bad cheques, family problems and domestic violence” (Windsor Star, “Author Spells out Video Gaming Danger, July 9, 1996). “A survey of compulsive gamblers by University of Illinois researcher Henry Lesieur found that 22 percent became divorced because of gambling, 40 percent lost a job, 49 percent stole from their employers to cover debts and 79 percent said they wanted to die. Two thirds of compulsive gamblers commit other crimes to pay for their habit, several studies have found” (William Falk, “Gambling the New National Pastime,” Newsday, Dec. 3, 1995). Compulsive gamblers have an average gambling debt of $43,000, and 85 percent of them have stolen from their employers in an attempt to pay their debts.

 WHAT DOES THE BIBLE SAY?

I. Scripture condemns covetousness and easy wealth  

A. Gambling encourages covetousness and greed which is clearly forbidden

Exodus 20:17 “Thou shalt not covet thy neighbor’s house, thou shalt not covet thy neighbor’s wife, nor his manservant, nor his maidservant, nor his ox, nor his ass, nor anything that is thy neighbor’s.” 
Hebrews 13:5-6 “Let your conversation be without covetousness and be content with such things as ye have; for He hath said, I will never leave thee nor forsake thee. So that we may boldly say, The Lord is my Helper and I will not fear what man shall do unto me.” 

Gambling entices people to want more and not to be satisfied with what is being provided by legitimate means of income. Remember, God never tempts any man to do evil (James 1:13)! Gambling cannot be from the Lord!

G. Campbell Morgan, a renowned Bible scholar, pointed out that the urge to gamble goes far beyond the desire for amusement or entertainment; it involves an inordinate (and often uncontrolled) appetite that is covetousness. The apostle Paul used the terms “lust” and “concupiscence” to describe covetousness (I Thess. 4:5); he urged Christians to “mortify” these desires (Col. 3:1-6). Covetousness is also called “idolatry” (Col. 3:5).

B. Gambling encourages a wrong emphasis to life.

Proverbs 23:4-5 “Labor not to be rich; cease from thine own wisdom. Wilt thou set thine eyes upon that which is not? For riches certainly make themselves wings; they fly away as an eagle toward heaven.”
Proverbs 30:8-9 “Remove me far from vanity and lies; give me neither poverty nor riches; feed me with food convenient for me. Lest I be full, and deny Thee, and say, Who is the Lord? Or lest I be poor, and steal, and take the name of my God in vain.”
 I Timothy 6:6-11 (Gambling is both a root and a fruit of sin) , “For the love of money is the root of all sin (root), which while some have coveted after, they have erred from the faith and pierced themselves through with many sorrows (fruit).”

 Matthew 6:19-21 “Lay not up for yourselves treasures upon earth… but lay up for yourselves treasures in heaven…”

C. Gambling promotes “easy money”

“Easy money” is not one of God’s plans to gain wealth. In fact, work is God’s method which produces not only wealth but character. “Easy money” promotes laziness and a concentration of pleasure and ease.

Genesis 3:19 “In the sweat of thy face shalt thou eat bread till thou return to the ground…”   Eccl. 5:10-12 “He that loveth silver shall not be satisfied with silver…the sleep of a laboring man is sweet, whether he eat little or much; but the abundance of the rich will not suffer him to sleep.” Proverbs 6:6-9 “Go to the ant thou sluggard, consider her ways and be wise…”

Common sense would tell most people from the information regarding lotteries and gambling in general that it would not be wise to ever get started. But to us as Christians, we want to know what scripture says.

II. Gambling’s addictive nature makes it forbidden by scripture to any Christian.

I Cor. 6:12,13 “All things are lawful unto me, but all things are not expedient; all things are lawful for me, but I will not be brought under the power of any. Meats for the belly and the belly for meats; but God shall destroy both it and them.” Note the little phrase Paul uses, “I will not be brought under the power of any.” No one or no thing should control us but the Lord and His Word! Gambling definitely has an addictive, controlling nature to it. This is particularly true for certain types of people. It really is not a matter of whether or not someone has the money to gamble, it is matter of who is controlling me! (See also Romans 6:16-19)

II Peter 2:14 “Having eyes full of adultery and that cannot cease from sin.” (a mark of a false prophet is one who “cannot cease from sin…an heart they have exercised with covetous practices”) Note also the phrase “an heart they have exercised with covetous practices.” All of us have a wicked heart prone to covetousness but we must not exercise that sinful practice for if we do it becomes a habit very difficult to break!

III. Gambling violates God’s principles of stewardship.

Luke 16:10,11 “He that is faithful in that which is least is faithful also in much; and he that is unjust in the least is unjust also in much. If therefore ye have not been faithful in the unrighteous mammon, who will commit to your trust the true riches?” Mammon speaks of money. God has given us our money, we are but stewards of what He has given us. Deut. 8:18 “It is God that giveth thee power to get wealth.”, Psalm 24:1″The earth is the Lord’s and the fullness thereof.”  I do not have the right to spend God’s money on that which is forbidden. It is His money, I am but the manager or steward of it.

IV. Gambling is an unscriptural way of earning wealth.

The Bible talks about “unjust gain” and “dishonest gain” — wrong ways of getting money.  What are God’s ordained ways of acquiring wealth?

Labor- II Thess. 3:10 “If any would not work, neither should he eat.”, Gen. 3:19 “in the sweat of thy face shalt thou eat bread.”, Eph. 4:28 “Let him that stole steal no more but rather let him labor, working with his hands the thing which is good, that he may have to give to him that needeth.”

Inheritances and gifts- Pro. 19:14 “House and riches are the inheritance of fathers…”, II Cor. 12:14 “The children ought not to lay up for the parents but the parents for the children.”, Gen. 23:1-11, Eph. 4:28 “that he may have to give.”

Proper investments- Luke 19:15 “And it came to pass, that when he was returned, having received the kingdom, then he commanded these servants to be called unto him, to whom he had given the money, that he might know how much every man had gained by trading.”

Savings- Proverbs 21:20 “There is treasure to be desired and oil in the dwelling of the wise; but a foolish man spendeth it up.”

Gambling, which includes the lottery, should be a definite “no” for the Christian committed to obeying God’s Word!

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Added Commentary:

Thank you Dr. Reed for your thoughts on the subject of gambling… specifically concerning the increasingly popular lottery system. I would like to remind our readers of the things that many pastors see which is NOT advertised on the lottery billboards. Things such as broken down moms and dads who have spent their families into debt seeking the elusive million dollar jackpot. How about the homes which have ended up in divorce court over irreconcilable differences due largely to financial ruin created by the seeds of greed and enabled by State sponsored gambling.
What about the children? They suffer the most! Instead of the parental example of hard work and strict moral ethics, many are ensnared by the lure of fast cars, beautiful mansions, easy women, seductive men, and the endless supply of money. Of course, this is only possible if you buy that lottery ticket!
In summation, gambling is sinful and facilitates laziness, a deceptive picture of the “good life” and is diametrically opposite to sound stewardship principles found in the Holy Scriptures. Anyone who promotes this wicked sin is in danger of judgment from God. While folks may not see this impending judgment, a wise man once said, “The wheels of God’s justice may turn slowly, but they STILL turn!”

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5 Qualities Of A Great Leader – Pastor Dan Reed | Manna For Your Day

Dr. Dan Reed was born in Birmingham, Alabama in 1951. He was saved at the Woodland Avenue Baptist Church in 1973 while studying engineering at Auburn University. Sensing the call to preach in 1973 he enrolled at Tennessee Temple College under the ministry of Dr. Lee Roberson. Finishing his B.A. in December of 1975 he was called to Emden, Missouri , a town of 61, to pastor the Community Baptist Church. Pastor Reed has started two churches and two Christian schools during his 33-year ministry. He is currently the pastor of Harvest Baptist Church of Acworth, Georgia. (Learn more about Dr. Reed HERE)

QUALITIES OF A GREAT LEADER

Scripture Reading: Acts 20:17-27

Text: Acts 20:28 “Take heed therefore unto yourselves…”

In this passage the great apostle has called together the elders of the church of Ephesus to speak to them. It was a pastor’s conference if you will. Paul, when he had last been at Ephesus, had caused a riot and had to leave the city. Now he stops at Miletus, several miles outside of Ephesus, probably so as to avoid trouble if he went into the town of Ephesus, and he sends word for all the elders (i.e. the pastors) of the church there at Ephesus, to come and meet with him (Verse 17). In this passage he challenges these men with regard to their leadership of the church.

All of us are leaders in one way or another and if we expect to be used of God in any way, we must always be working on our leadership skills. Mothers lead children and husbands lead their families and all of us lead souls to Christ and are the best Christian somebody knows. So all of us are in some fashion leaders.

“A leader is one who knows the road, who can keep ahead, and who can pull others after him.” – Lord Montgomery

I am constantly studying leadership because I desire to be a better leader. Lord Montgomery said, “A leader is one who knows the road, who can keep ahead, and who can pull others after him.”  Someone else has said that “a leader is someone who sees further down the road than others can.” Still someone else has said that “leadership is the ability to obtain followers.” One of my favorite little sayings is, “He who thinketh he leadeth and hath no one following him is only taking a walk.” A leader should occasionally look behind him just to see if anyone is really following!

Someone else has said in regard to leadership that a good leader inspires rather than requires. But the best definition of leadership I ever heard is that leadership is “influence.” Your influence is your leadership. You are a leader to the degree that you influence people. The great apostle Paul was able to inspire and influence men to achieve great potential for the Lord. If you really want to measure your spiritual leadership, look at the people you have influenced to live for God. The amount of your spiritual impact is the amount of your spiritual leadership. Judging by that criteria, the apostle Paul’s spiritual leadership is a great example to all of us.

In this passage, Paul holds up some of his own qualities to inspire these pastors to greater leadership. What are some qualities of great leadership?

I. Humility – Acts 20:18,19 “Ye know from the first day that I came into Asia, after what manner I have been with you at all seasons, Serving the Lord with all humility of mind…”

Paul was an humble man. Now mind you, he was not a weak man by any means. He didn’t lack force of personality. I am afraid some think that humility is a cowering weakness. But such is not the case at all. Actually humility is both an attitude and an action. In attitude it is realizing that God and others are responsible for any achievements in my life. Paul said in First Corinthians 15:10 “I am what I am by the grace of God…”

The first quality of a leader that he held out to these pastors was humility (Acts 20:18,19) ”Serving the Lord with all humility of mind…”. Someone has that “humility is the garden in which all other graces grow.” The attitude we must cultivate as leaders in order to develop further in other areas of our life is that God uses men and people to hone us. God puts people around us to help us to grow. If we do not recognize that God has placed our pastor, our Sunday School teacher, our parents, and our authorities over us to help us, we will miss the boat of growth in grace.

Oftentimes it is when we chafe the most that God is using those people the most. But it is also true that God uses them simply by holding some of them up as examples to be copied by us. We become like that which we admire. I can look at my preaching and see in it many different preachers whom I have admired. I did not set out to copy them but simply by admiring and studying their preaching I have taken on some of their qualities and even mannerisms. This is why we must be very careful whom we admire and whom we read after. But humility causes us to recognize that God does use people! “Humble yourselves therefore under the mighty hand of God, that He may exalt you in due time.” (I Peter 5:6) The “mighty hand of God” is those people whom God has placed over you!

The opposite of humility is pride. Pride will bring any leader down. Proverbs 18:12 “Before destruction the heart of man is haughty and before honor is humility.” James 4:6 “God resisteth the proud but giveth grace to the humble.” Proverbs 16:18 “Pride goeth before destruction and a haughty spirit before a fall.”

Pride brought down Lucifer, son of the morning. Pride destroyed the great king, Nebuchadnezzar and caused him to eat straw like an ox. Pride caused Herod to be eaten of worms. It was pride that caused Peter to fall and deny the Lord. Someone has said “The degree of success you will have as a man of God will be in direct proportion to how often you die.” Humility as an action is death to self.

Satan is the epitome of pride in this sense for 5 times in Isaiah 14 he said, “I”. “I will ascend into heaven, I will exalt my throne above the stars of God, I will sit also upon the mount of the congregation in the sides of the north, I will ascend above the heights of the clouds, I will be like the Most High.” Satan’s trouble as well as our trouble is “I” trouble! Contrast that with Paul who said, “I am crucified with Christ, nevertheless I  live, yet not I, but Christ liveth in me.” Paul was a servant leader with the mind of Christ Who, even as God, picked up the towel in John 13 and washed His disciple’s feet as a servant. If you and I would be true spiritual leaders, we must have the mind of Christ Who was willing to serve others in the spirit of humility.

The apostle Paul, in challenging the pastors of the Ephesian church shows them the qualities of a great leader. We have looked at the quality of humility which must be in every servant-leader. Now let’s look at another quality:

II. A  Leader Must Have The Courage To Say What Needs To Be Said…

Acts 20:20 “And how I kept back nothing that was profitable unto you, but have showed you and taught you publicly and from house to house…” 20:27 “For I have not shunned to declare unto you all the counsel of God.”

Leaders sometimes have to say hard things to people. There must be correction sometimes. Paul said that he had done that publicly. He meant that in his preaching he had said what needed to be said in order to lead them properly.

All the Bible is not salvation. In fact, most of the Bible tells us how to live the Christian life. In order for us to live properly we must be corrected and someone must have the courage to do that. Preaching on how to live is not always popular. The Bible tells a man how to be a godly man and it says that he “must not walk in the counsel of the ungodly nor stand in the way of sinners nor sit in the seat of the scornful” in order to be a godly man. Those are negative things but if I would be a leader of men in spiritual matters I must warn them about things that will hurt their Christian life and testimony and I must be specific. That is not something many people enjoy, particularly when it affects them! But Paul said also that he had taught them from “house to house” and had held back nothing that was profitable unto them.  In other words Paul confronted people personally face to face and corrected them.

Many times a work suffers because a leader will not confront people personally and correct them. A whole church can suffer because no one will take the bull by the horns and correct an errant Sunday School teacher or bus worker or assistant. Sometimes people’s feelings are put above the work of God because of a lack of courage on the part of a leader. Paul even confronted Peter in one place (Galatians 2:11-14) “because he was to be blamed.” The scripture says there that “Paul withstood him to the face.”

It is true that leaders must learn and work at proper confrontation. Proverbs speaks of “a wise reprover upon an obedient ear.” I remember one time confronting a Christian school teacher over an error. She was very angry with me and her husband came to me over it. He asked that the next time I speak to him if I had a problem with her. So the next time I had a problem I went to him and he too, became angry about it! Sometimes, no matter how you correct, you do not have an “obedient ear.”  But whether there is an obedient ear or not, leadership demands confrontation. The leader who cannot or will not correct wrong direction in fellowship must not remain in leadership long! How would you like to be on an airplane where the pilot would not correct a co-pilot who was steering the plane in a wrong direction or allowing things to remain undone in preparation for a landing? Leadership must be willing to do what needs to be done.

We have looked at two qualities of a great spiritual leader thus far from the life and ministry of the apostle Paul. He was meeting with the pastors of the Ephesian church when he challenged them with these leadership qualities to be developed in their own life. We now look at the third quality:

III. A Leader Must Have The Courage To Do What Has To Be Done…

Acts 20:22,23 “And now, behold, I go bound in the spirit unto Jerusalem, not knowing the things that shall befall me there. Save that the Holy Ghost witnesseth in every city, saying that bonds and afflictions abide me.”

The Spirit of God had moved Paul to go to Jerusalem but had also communicated to him that trouble awaited him there. But Paul had to do what God told him to do no matter what it cost him. A leader has to take the right course not knowing how some people will react to his decision. A leader is not like some politician who takes the course of expediency; he must do what is right whether people understand him or not.

I have only had to fire one man in the course of 24 years of ministry. In that case, the reason for his firing was such that if I had told it publicly, I would have hurt the man and his family in the community. I had to do what I had to do without the great bulk of my church even understanding why I had to let him go. He was a much loved man and there was much misunderstanding about why I had to fire him. Yet for the sake of the work of God I had to do what I had to do. It was a tough time in my ministry, but many times leaders know things that others do not know and they have to deal with the information they have. Actually this is true in every home, business, and church.

We are living in a day when people want to know every detail. The media has so brainwashed the public that they think they have the right to know even what is going on during wartime such that our own military is sometimes jeopardized by publicized information. Leaders must learn to do what has to do be done and simply sometimes suffer being misunderstood and harshly judged. I personally believe that Kenneth Starr, the prosecutor against Bill Clinton, when all is said and done and history is written, will come out to be a hero and a man of great integrity. He had lots of information, much that was never published; he acted on what he knew. That took lots of courage and got him roundly criticized. But many of us respect his integrity and leadership. A leader must do what has to be done for the sake of the cause!

IV. A Leader Must Have A Caring Attitude…

Acts 20:36ff “And when he had thus spoken, he kneeled down and prayed with them all. And they all wept sore…sorrowing…that they should see his face no more.”

“… people do not care how much you know until they know how much you care.”

The reason Paul could be so stern was because he cared for those he led and they knew it and they loved him. They knew he was not out for himself but for the cause of Christ. It really is true that people do not care how much you know until they know how much you care. Two people can say the exact same thing and it will be received from one and rejected from another. Why? Because one truly cares and loves the people while another is not a self sacrificing leader. Leaders have to care and the people they lead must sense that the leader has their interest and welfare in mind, not the building of their own kingdom.

Paul is a good example of a great spiritual leader. In his conference with the pastors from Ephesus he showed his leadership ability. We have looked at four of those qualities. Now we look at some more.

V.  A Leader Generally Has A Strong Will…

Acts 20:24 “But none of these things move me, neither count I my life dear unto myself, so that I might finish my course with joy, and the ministry which I have received of the Lord Jesus, to testify the gospel of the grace of God.”

If anybody had a strong will Paul did and it was exemplified in all that he did, even before he was saved. All of us have a will; it is our driving force. Leaders, strong leaders, generally speaking, are molded from men who have strong wills. Spiritual leadership is when a man or woman’s strong will coincides with the will of God. Moses was a strong willed man and sought to deliver Israel from Egypt on his own. Of course, he failed. But then God took him and molded him and made His will to be Moses great desire. Then he used him greatly. Who, but a man with a determinative will could have led those rebellious Israelites for 40 years? Peter, too, obviously had a strong will.

God, in His sovereign choices, chooses leaders from those who have strong wills. Weak-willed people rarely last in leadership because they are so easily molded by the public will. A man with a weak will will usually be controlled by his wife unless she is extremely submissive. A pastor with a weak will will give way to the whims of deacons or the people and will not be the man of God he must be to be the leader of his flock. This is not to say that a leader must be stubborn and self willed. In fact, scripture forbids an elder (pastor) to be self willed. But self will is not the same as strong will. If you have a child that is strong willed, do not despair but ask God for wisdom, for leadership material is in your home!

This is one of the reasons that successful pastors, when very young, usually run into big problems in their churches. Their strong will has not learned some patience and forbearance and thus, like Moses, they run over people trying to get things done. However, if people in churches could simply understand that successful leaders must have a strong will and could bear with some of the faults of the young pastor in order to let him get some patience, they could keep the man God sent them to lead them and he would become a great leader.

If people in churches could learn to look beyond the rough edges of a strong leader and help him rather than dismiss him as unusable, they would profit by it. Most churches who oust a strong leader will wind up with a wimp for a pastor who couldn’t lead anything and thus the church will never go anywhere! Let us learn in our children and young people to correct wrong behavior but not squelch their strong will! May God give us in our churches some men with strong wills who have a burning desire to do something with their lives!

Questions to Ponder

1. Name some qualities in your life that God has used other people to develop in you and then thank the Lord for bringing those people into your life. Perhaps you could write them a note and thank them.

2. Think of some ways you serve those people you lead. Do you reach out to them to build relationships? Someone has said that “Rules without relationship breed rebellion.” Could this be the reason some people under you are a bit rebellious?

3. Look up Pro. 15:10 and answer why correction is grievous to some people.

4. Some people are easy to correct. Why? James 3:17

5. In every group of people, a leader emerges. What is at least one quality of the one who emerges as the leader? However, if they are a spiritual leader, other qualities must be present. Not all leaders are spiritual leaders!

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The Foolishness Of Hatred – By Pastor Dan Reed | Manna For Your Day

Dr. Dan Reed was born in Birmingham, Alabama in 1951. He was saved at the Woodland Avenue Baptist Church in 1973 while studying engineering at Auburn University. Sensing the call to preach in 1973 he enrolled at Tennessee Temple College under the ministry of Dr. Lee Roberson. Finishing his B.A. in December of 1975 he was called to Emden, Missouri , a town of 61, to pastor the Community Baptist Church. Pastor Reed has started two churches and two Christian schools during his 33-year ministry. He is currently the pastor of Harvest Baptist Church of Acworth, Georgia. (Learn more about Dr. Reed HERE)

THE FOOLISHNESS OF HATRED

Scripture Reading: Genesis 16:4,5, Luke 18:9, Proverbs 11:12

Text: Proverbs 11:12 “He that is void of wisdom despiseth his neighbor; but a man of understanding holdeth his peace.”

The book of Proverbs is a contrast between wisdom and foolishness. Solomon says that a man who hates or despises his neighbor is foolish, or lacks wisdom. I think it was Booker T. Washington who said, “No man shall so degrade my soul as to make me hate him.” Hatred, which is another word for “despise,” brings the one hating to a much lower level than the one he hates. The main reason people hate, Solomon says, is that they lack wisdom. Really it is our selfishness which causes us to despise someone. When someone does not respond to us the way we think they should, when they treat us in a way we perceive as disrespect or disdain, or maybe they just neglect us and pay us no mind at all, then we tend to despise them. We are the center of our universe and we tend to judge people not by who they are but by how they treat us! Solomon goes on to say here that a man of understanding is silent when people do things that offend him. The reason he is silent is because he knows people and understands first, I am no better than anyone else, and second, if someone mistreats me, they deserve my pity and my prayer, maybe my instruction, but not my hatred. What is that wisdom that keeps us from despising others?

(1) We are all made in God’s image- Every human being is made in God’s image and thus, his differences are put there by God. To despise another human being is to despise God. Should the rabbit despise the turtle because it is much slower? Should the giraffe despise the deer because it cannot  reach as high? “Who art thou that judgeth another man’s servant, to his own master he standeth or falleth.”(Romans14:4) We must judge right and wrong, of course, but we must never despise another human being made in God’s image.

(2) Another reason people despise others is because they have a false standard of righteousness. Jesus told the parable of the self righteous Pharisee and the publican to those who “trusted in themselves that they were righteous and despised others.” The Pharisees had set up a false standard of righteousness. Jesus said about them, “they say and do not.” They were hypocrites. Hypocrisy loads men with guilt which causes people to be cruel to each other. A man who is dirty already doesn’t mind getting dirtier. People who live with perpetual guilt because they have set up a standard they themselves do not keep are usually very hard on other people, even despising them.

(3) Jealousy causes people to despise each other. Hagar despised Sarai after she conceived because she was jealous. Jealousy is as cruel as the grave. Scripture says, “Who can stand before envy.” Jealousy caused Saul to chase David like a hound for ten years. At times Saul wanted to repent but could not because, “Who can stand before envy.” Jealousy caused Cain to murder Abel because God accepted Abel’s sacrifice and rejected his. The Pharisees delivered up Jesus because of envy.  Jealousy causes hatred and according to Jesus, hatred is the root of murder (Matthew 5:21,22).

If there is anyone in this world you despise, it shows you lack understanding! I am not commanded in the Bible to like everybody, but I am commanded to love even my enemies. To love my enemies means I must treat them biblically!

Questions to Ponder

1. The scripture says that Saul “eyed David from that day forward.” What does that mean and what caused Saul’s jealousy and resentment of David? (I Samuel 18)

2. How do we conquer the emotion of jealousy? I Thessalonians 5:18

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