I am not sure what exactly it is in a leader which makes them somewhat hostile when criticisms arise. Many times a spiritual leader will tend to respond to criticism in a sinful way. It might not be very noticeable at first, but the root of retribution could be just beneath the surface.
Many times we respond inappropriately to criticism. Listed below are some common responses to, what could be, our best ally in practical Christian living:
- Anger
- Resentment
- Hostility
- Bitterness
- Evil Communication
- Gossip
- Retaliation
- Close Mindedness
- Loss Of Friendship
- Hurt Feelings… To The Extent That It May Be Irreparable
- THINK before you speak! – James 1:19
- Remember that you do not have to respond immediately to what is being said. It is sometimes best to chew upon what has been handed to you! – Proverbs 27:6
- Be polite and say, “Thank you!” – Proverbs 15:1
- Try not to add any heat to the situation, no matter how awkward things might seem! – Proverbs 26:20
- Spare your words. Remember that God is keeping a record too! – Proverbs 17:27-28
We are all human, but we can do our dead level best to respond to criticism in the right manner. Responding to criticism is crucial to Christian maturity. For many of God’s children, being criticized is what unravels us. Satan knows this and will seek to exploit it any time he gets a chance. Be on guard 24/7, especially if you are a pastor or spiritual leader.
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Whatever Happened to Worship? |
By A.W. Tozer / Wingspread Publishers
Decrying much of contemporary worship as entertainment, Tozer says, “When we are worshipping…if the love of God is in us and the Spirit of God is breathing praise within us, all the musical instruments in heaven are suddenly playing in full support.” Originally preached as sermons at Avenue Road Alliance Church in Toronto, the chapters of Whatever Happened to Worshipconvey Tozer’s attitude and thoughts on Christian worship.
